(Quexstion No.6820)I am one of allah"s beleiver want to know about to have sex in a halaal manner.
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I am
one of allah"s beleiver want to know about to have sex in a halaal manner
without violating shariat. reply me what to do? My age is only 19.
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Answer:
Sex lawful only in
Marriage
In the name of Allah, We praise Him, seek His
help and ask for His forgiveness. Whoever Allah guides none can misguide,
and whoever He allows to fall astray, none can guide them aright. We bear
witness that there is none worthy of worship but Allah Alone, and we bear
witness that Muhammad (saws) is His slave-servant and the seal of His
Messengers.
Allah Says in the Holy Quran Chapter 23 Surah
Muminoon verses 1-7:
1 The believers must (eventually) win
through
2 Those who humble themselves in their
prayers;
3 (Those) Who avoid vain talk;
4 (Those)Who are active in deeds of charity;
5 (Those) Who scrupulously
guard their private parts,
6 Except with those joined to them in the marriage bond or those whom their right hands possess; for (in their case) they
are free from blame
7 But those whose desires exceed those
limits are transgressors
Islam has made the fulfilling of all of one’s (man or
woman’s) natural sexual desires only through the sacred institution of
marriage.
Allah Says in the Holy Quran Chapter 2 Surah
Baqarah verse 223:
223 Your wives are as a tilth unto you; so
approach your tilth (for sexual intercourse) when or how ye will.
Islam has allowed the husband and the wife united in the
sacred bond of marriage every possible liberty to enjoy conjugal relations with
each other, except three:
- It
is strictly prohibited to have the actual act of sexual intercourse with
one’s wife during her period of menstruation.
- It
is strictly prohibited to enter the woman through her anus.
- Although
there is no specific prohibition mentioned in the Quran and Sunnah, the
majority of the scholars in Islam have voiced their opinion against ‘oral’
sex, whereby one touches the other’s private organs with their mouth.
Other than the above three restrictions, one may enjoy
conjugal relations with one’s wife any place, any time, and any how their
heart’s desire.
Abu Dhar al-Ghafari reported: ‘The Messenger
of Allah (saws) said: “there is a reward for you [even] in sex with your
wife."’ The companions asked: ‘O Messenger of Allah (saws) is there a
reward if one satisfies his passion?" He (saws) said: "Do you know
that if he satisfies it unlawfully he has taken a sin upon himself? Likewise, if he satisfies it lawfully, he is
rewarded."
Related by Ahmad and Muslim.
Whatever written of Truth and benefit is only
due to Allah’s Assistance and Guidance, and whatever of error is of me
alone. Allah Alone Knows Best and He is
the Only Source of Strength.
Your brother and
well wisher in Islam,
Burhan