I love a girl but father forced me to marriage other girl but i dont like him so what can i do
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wa Rahmatullahi wa Barakatuh. (May Allah's Peace, Mercy and Blessings be upon
all of you)
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i love
a girl but father forced me to marriage other girl but i dont like him so what
can i do
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Answer:
Father forced
marriage
In the name of Allah, We praise Him, seek His help and ask
for His forgiveness. Whoever Allah guides none can misguide, and whoever
He allows to fall astray, none can guide them aright. We bear witness that
there is no one (no idol, no person, no
grave, no prophet, no imam, no dai,
nobody!) worthy of worship but Allah Alone, and we bear witness that
Muhammad (saws) is His slave-servant and the seal of His Messengers.
Dear and beloved brother, as much as you were coerced by
your father to marry the girl of his choice, by consummating the marriage you
did actually agree and consent to that marriage.
It would only be righteousness and closer to piety in the
Sight of Allah that after you have consummated your marriage, you fear Allah
and remain absolutely faithful to the woman you have married, and bestow upon
her the honor, love, kindness and mercy that every righteous wife deserves in
Islam.
Allah Says in the Holy Quran Chapter 4 Surah
Nisaa verse 19:
19 O ye who believe! You are forbidden to inherit women against their
will. Nor should ye treat them with
harshness that ye may take away part of the dower ye have given them except
where they have been guilty of open lewdness; on the contrary live with them on
a footing of kindness and equity. If
ye take a dislike to them it may be that ye dislike a thing and Allah brings
about through it a great deal of good.
Sahih Muslim Hadith 3469 Narrated by Abu Hurayrah
Allah's Messenger (saws) said: ‘a believing
man should not hate a believing woman; if he dislikes one of her
characteristics, he will be pleased with another
Beloved brother in Islam, if may be that because of your
emotions and feelings for a woman who is not your wife, you may temporarily dislike
the wife you have married; but trust and fear Allah Subhanah, for He may bring
about a lot of good from your legal and lawful marriage.
As your brothers and sincere well-wishers in faith, our
humble advice to you would be to fear Allah, be absolutely faithful to the
woman you have married, and strive your absolutely best to fulfill all your
duties and responsibilities in the marriage.
If you sincerely wish to fulfill your vows of marriage, it may be that
Allah Subhanah will put love and mercy in your heart for the woman you have married
and bring about a great deal of good through this sacred union, Insha Allah.
Allah Says in the Holy Quran Chapter 30 Surah
Rome verse 21:
21 And among His Signs is this that He created for you mates from among
yourselves that ye may dwell in tranquillity with them and He has put
love and mercy between your (hearts); verily in that are Signs for
those who reflect.
Whatever written of Truth and benefit is only due to
Allah’s Assistance and Guidance, and whatever of error is of me alone. Allah Alone Knows Best and He is the Only
Source of Strength.
Your brother and
well wisher in Islam,
Burhan