Relation between girl and father
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Girl father relation
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Sahih Al-Bukhari Hadith 7.116 Narrated by Abdullah bin Umar
The Prophet (saws) said, "Everyone of you is a guardian and everyone of you is responsible (for his wards). A ruler is a guardian and is responsible(for his subjects); a man is a guardian of his family and responsible (for them); a wife is a guardian of her husband's house and she is responsible (for it), a slave is a guardian of his master's property and is responsible (for that). Beware! All of you are guardians and are responsible (for your wards)."
Dear and beloved sister in Islam, if only you could put yourself in your parents shoes for a moment, you would realize that their concern for your well-being, your safety, your honor, your life, your future, and your reputation is beyond anyone can imagine! The concern of your father is absolutely normal and natural, and any righteous and caring father would imagine and fear the worst for his little princess whom he has so loved, cared, and cherished for selflessly all their life.
As concerned as your father was for your well-being and safety, he should fear Allah, and control himself when in anger; for any accusation without strong proof or evidence is unwarranted in the Sight of Shariah. Beloved Sister in Islam, any righteous parent or guardian of a girl who returns home at , even if it was only once in their lifetime, should be a cause of severe and serious concern for them. Thus even as much as one may not be able to condone your fathers anger and accusations, if you could only try to understand and comprehend his love and his fear of your safety, you would have more appreciation for his concern for you.
Dear and beloved sister, the next time you wish to stay out so late all you need to do is make sure you take your fathers permission, take your mother, sister, or brother with you, and inform your father exactly where you are and when you expect to be back; and such unpleasant incidents that occurred later can be avoided.
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Your brother and well wisher in Islam,