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1, My Friend married with his own choice it was not at all forceblly done, But after marriage his relation with his wife is not usual. He is hardly on bed with her. in a month its hardly 5 to 6 times.This is creating lot of problems in their lifes, now i want to know the proper answer in the light of Quran and sunnah. following are my Questions.

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1, My Friend married with his own choice it was not at all forceblly done, But after marriage his relation with his wife is not usual. He is hardly on bed with her. in a month its hardly 5 to 6 times.This is creating lot of problems in their lifes, now i want to know the proper answer in the light of Quran and sunnah. following are my Questions.

A, Will that Man will be punished in the day of JUdgement ???
B, What is his right towards his wife, isint it Haram to do so.???
C, If My sister do some thing Wrong (La samah Hallah) nauzibillah on a wrong path who will be blamed ?????
D, or is it some kind of Magic and if so then how shall we know what is the reason.
E, or is it some Deffeciency

Please help us in the matter at earliest. i want to show him what islam sayzz abt this kind of man then i want totake him to the doctor even if this is not solved the to Some Sheikh in mecca. Please suggest me what to do.

Jazakallah Khair 

 

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Marriage issues

In the name of Allah, We praise Him, seek His help and ask for His forgiveness. Whoever Allah guides none can misguide, and whoever He allows to fall astray, none can guide them aright. We bear witness that there is no one (no idol, no person, no grave, no prophet, no imam, no dai, nobody!) worthy of worship but Allah Alone, and we bear witness that Muhammad (saws) is His slave-servant and the seal of His Messengers.


 

Your Statement: My Friend married with his own choice it was not at all forceblly done, But after marriage his relation with his wife is not usual. He is hardly on bed with her. in a month its hardly 5 to 6 times.This is creating lot of problems in their lifes,

Apart from all the other duties, responsibilities and wisdom that lie in the sacred institution of marriage, one amongst them is that it is only through this sacred institution of marriage that a man and a woman can lawfully and legally fulfill their natural physical desire.

 

Because the sexual desire of each individual may be different according to their physical or biological build-up, there is no particular limit set in Islam of how many times maximum or minimum a person may enjoy conjugal relations with their spouse. It is possible that one may be satisfied with having sexual intercourse only once a month, while another who has a bigger or healthier desire may wish to enjoy their lawful relation several times a day.

 

It may happen that at times one of the partners in marriage has a bigger natural appetite for sex than the other; but instead of allowing this difference in appetite to lead to friction or dissatisfaction, the partners must talk to each other and make their needs known to their spouse, and they should come to an amicable understanding between themselves.

 

Your Question-A: Will that Man will be punished in the day of JUdgement ???
If a man marries a woman, and absolutely refuses to fulfill his duties as a husband, one of which is enjoying physical relations with his wife; indeed he would be guilty of not giving his wife one of her rights in marriage and would indeed be accountable for his injustice in the Presence of the Lord Most High on an Inevitable Day.

 

But if the person, as you have mentioned, fulfills this right in his marriage five to six times a month; it might be that this frequency might be enough to satisfy his appetite for sexual intercourse. If the wife is dis-satisfied with this frequency, she should make it known to her husband and work out an amicable understanding between themselves.

 

Your Question-B: What is his right towards his wife, isint it Haram to do so.???
If the husband (or the wife) absolutely refuses to have sexual intercourse in their marriage, not only would it be unnatural, but the one who permanently refuses to fulfill this right of their partner in marriage would be guilty in the Sight of Allah Subhanah for their transgression and injustice.

 

Your Question-C: If My sister do some thing Wrong (La samah Hallah) nauzibillah on a wrong path who will be blamed ?????
If one feels one has been wronged, it does not mean in any way nor does it become legal and lawful for them to commit a prohibited act in Islam! If the wife who is not satisfied sexually by her husband tries to satisfy her desire out of marriage, she would be guilty of a severe transgression and sin in the Sight of Allah Subhanah.

 

Your Question-D: or is it some kind of Magic and if so then how shall we know what is the reason.
Your Question-E: or is it some Deffeciency

It may be that the husband has a natural lower desire for sex, or it may be that there might be a medical or physical deficiency; it would be best to consult the medical experts and take their opinion.

 

Believing that magic or some spell, or something or someone is able to harm another in the unseen, is to disbelieve in the Qadr of Allah Subhanah and a manifestation of the evil abomination of kufr and shirk!

 

Whatever written of Truth and benefit is only due to Allahs Assistance and Guidance, and whatever of error is of me alone. Allah Alone Knows Best and He is the Only Source of Strength.

Your Brother in Islam,

 

 

Burhan

 


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