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My problem is that often some thing negative comes in my mind for eg: About sex only. Then my organ becomes erect and some sticky substance of 2-3 drops comes out. I want to clear that is this a sperm. We have to take bath after this happens.

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Assalamalaikum,
I'm working in Saudi Arabia. My problem is that often some thing negative comes in my mind for eg: About sex only.

 

Then my organ becomes erect and some sticky substance of 2-3 drops comes out.  I want to clear that is this a sperm. We have to take bath after this happens. Before I use to masturbate a lot, while seeing sex movies, or seeing nude photos of magazines. I studied in a residential college away some 500 kms from my house. And when I'm in college some friends of mine masturbate my organ by rubbing my organ with their hands. I feel very nice at that time. I know this is haram all these things in Islam but the complete surroundings with this bad habits and complete domination of different religions. Muslims are very few. I think only 1%. But after coming to Saudi Arabia I had left all these things. I came to Saudi Arabia some 10 months ago.


I heard that after every 40 days sperms gets ejaculated. But before I used to masturbate, I didn't recognize it. But now after passing 50-55 days also I didn't get the ejaculation completely but only 3-4 drops of sticky substance comes out that to when I think about sex or think about the affair with my previous girl friend or think about the couples that got married and how they make love. By promise I had never had an intercourse with any one or with my girl friend in my life. Listen, I want to clear everything and I want to get rid of all these bullshit things.


Please don't take me wrong. I feel ashamed to talk all this with Imam or ulama. I'm Muslim and having the complete knowledge of Islam also. I used to pray 5 times and read QURAN also. Please tell me that if 3-4 drops comes out then we have to take bath or just get cleaning the organ and washed the area completely under the belly with fresh water.

 
I had stopped masturbating but sometimes when I went to sleep something comes in mind about sex and then I lay down organ touching a bed and start rubbing my organ with bed or sometimes with a pillow. I never use hand while rubbing. And ejaculation happens. So, I want to know this is also masturbating. I do this if only when 40 days completes and after that also ejaculation never comes. Please tell me ejaculation comes very soon. I don't want to ejaculate so soon.


I want to get rid with all these things but still some semi-nude pictures I used to have a glance. After seeing I get realize the thing

what I had done is wrong. What shall I do? Often I used to think about sex and used to think that I'm doing sex with some female. Please tell me how to avoid this bad habit. I want to become a nice guy. Sometimes I feel ashamed of my self why I'm living in this world.

 

This is very important email. I want to get rid of all these bullshit things. I'm from a well-educated and respectable family. In my family I only become like this due to study in a residential college and bad company of my friends.

 

Please brother mail me as soon as possible. Allah taala will give u ajar for this.

 

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Masturbating

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Your Question: My problem is that often some thing negative comes in my mind for eg: About sex only. Then my organ becomes erect and some sticky substance of 2-3 drops comes out.  I want to clear that is this a sperm. We have to take bath after this happens.

There are two types of liquids which come out of the male organ when he is sexually aroused. The few drops that initially come out are called madhi, and the full ejaculation is called mani. Another way to recognize the difference if one has released madhi or mani is: When madhi is released, the sexual arousal is increased, and when mani or full ejaculation is released, the sexual arousal comes to an end.

 

Thus, in the case that you have described above, it is evident that the sticky substance of 2-3 drops of liquid are madhi. One does not have to take a full bath after madhi to purify himself; if he simply washes his private parts and all the places where this madhi might have touched, he will be considered pure and the full ghusl or bath is not obligatory on him.

 

In the case of full ejaculation or mani, a full ghusl is obligatory to purify oneself.

 

Your Statement: I heard that after every 40 days sperms gets ejaculated.

It has not been scientifically proven that every male ejaculates automatically every 40 days, or in any number of days. This all depends on the individual, and varies considerably with each person.

 

Your Statement: Please don't take me wrong. I feel ashamed to talk all this with Imam or ulama.

Dear Brother, Islam is a Complete Way of Life, and Allah and His Messenger (saws) have guided us in every single aspect of life, including sex. Therefore, never ever feel embarrassed or ashamed to ask anything about Islam, if your intention is indeed to gain knowledge and seek guidance from the Quran and Sunnah.

 

Your Question: I had stopped masturbating but sometimes when I went to sleep something comes in mind about sex and then I lay down organ touching a bed and start rubbing my organ with bed or sometimes with a pillow. I never use hand while rubbing. And ejaculation happens. So, I want to know this is also masturbating. I do this if only when 40 days completes and after that also ejaculation never comes. Please tell me ejaculation comes very soon. I don't want to ejaculate so soon.

If you are awake and in full senses, and rub your organ against the bed, or pillow, or anything else whilst you have full control over your actions it will all be considered masturbation which is a sin in Islam.

 

But if you are asleep, and have a wet-dream; that is something beyond your control, and thus there is no sin in that. Both ways, it will be obligatory on the brother to have a full bath or ghusl to purify himself.

 

Your Question: I want to get rid with all these things but still some semi-nude pictures I used to have a glance. After seeing I get realize the thing what I had done is wrong. What shall I do? Often I used to think about sex and used to think that I'm doing sex with some female. Please tell me how to avoid this bad habit. I want to become a nice guy. Sometimes I feel ashamed of my self why I'm living in this world.

The act of masturbation is prohibited in Islam, and must be avoided by the believers. But just to put it into perspective, the sin of masturbation is not as grave as the sin of zina (adultery or fornication). But it definitely is a sin, and an evil act, and must be avoided by the believers.

 

Allah says in the Holy Quran Chapter24 Surah Noor verse 30:O Prophet, enjoin the believing men to restrain their gaze, and guard their private parts. This is a more righteous way for them. Allah has knowledge of whatever they do.

 

Allah has commanded the believers to lower their gaze, and guard their chastity. This is a more righteous way for them. The act of zina (fornication or adultery) is a great sin in Islam. The Prophet(saws) warned us against committing zina of the eyes, zina of the feet, zina of the hands, etc. If ones eyes are constantly watching sexual movies, magazines, etc. it would be considered zina of the eyes. If one goes to the place to commit zina or to the place of sexual movies, magazines, etc., it would be considered zina of the feet. Similarly, the act of masturbation, could be considered a zina of the eyes, or hands, etc. It is a sin and an evil act, and must be avoided by the believers.

 

It has been reported in an authentic narration, that the Messenger of Allah (saws) said, "O young people! Whoever among you can marry, should marry, because it helps him lower his gaze and guard his modesty; and whoever is not able to marry, should fast, as fasting diminishes his sexual power."

 

Thus if one is unable to control his sexual desire, he should get married, rather than get involved in committing sins like masturbation and zina (fornication or adultery). And if one is unable to marry, he should fast, as the Messenger of Allah (saws) says, that fasting reduces the persons sexual desire, and thus will stay away from committing sin.

 

Whatever one might have done in the past, Allahs door of Taubah and Repentance is always open, until the hour of death approaches the person. All one has to do to wipe out all his previous sins is turn to Allah in sincere repentance and Taubah, and make a solemn covenant with Allah that he will never repeat the sin again and then, strive to keep his word. The Merciful Lord, if He Wills, will forgive all the previous sins.

 

It is reported in an authentic narration that the Messenger of Allah (saws) said: All the Children of Adam are sinners; and the best of these sinners is the one who asks (Allah) for forgiveness!

 

Allah says in the Holy Quran Chapter 4 Surah Nisaa verses 17-18:Note it well that Allahs acceptance of repentance is for those people only, who commit an evil in ignorance, and then repent of it soon after. Allah again turns kindly to such people, for Allah is All Knowing, All Wise. But there is no repentance for those people who persist in their evil deeds until the dying hour comes to anyone of them; then he says, Now I repent!. Nor is repentance for them who die as unbelievers. For such people, We have prepared a painful torment.

 

Whatever written of Truth and benefit is only due to Allahs Assistance and Guidance, and whatever of error is of me. Allah Alone Knows Best and He is the Only Source of Strength.

 

 

Your Brother in Islam,

 

 

Burhan

 

 

 


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