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pls. guide me. when i talk naughty to my girl friend, when i see naked foto. some drops of liquid discharge from my penis. what is this. this requires gusl or only wadhu can purify this.please guide me.
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Fiqh-us-Sunnah Fiqh 1.10
Wadi is a thick white secretion discharged (by some people) after urination. It is considered impure. Aishah said, " Wadi comes out after urination. The person should wash the private parts and perform ablution. It is not necessary to perform ghusl. This is related by Ibn al-Mundhir. Ibn 'Abbas related that "mani (ejaculation or full sexual discharge) requires ghusl. As for madhi (prostatic fluid or initial sexual discharge) and wadi they require a complete purification." This is related by al-Athram. Al-Baihaqi has it with the wording, "Concerning madhi and wadi, he said, 'Wash your sexual organs and perform the same type of ablution as you perform for prayer."'
Other than urine, there are basically three types of discharges that are released from ones private organs:
Wadi (a thick white secretion immediately after uniration by some people)
Madhi (a sort of slow release of lubricant just prior to a full sexual discharge)
Mani (a full sexual discharge)
If only Wadi or Madhi is released, one does not require a ghusl or full bath to purify himself; he must wash his private parts and the part of his clothes or body where the wadi or madhi has touched, do the wudu, and he would be available for prayer.
If Mani is released, then it become obligatory to perform a ghusl or full bath to purify oneself.
It seems from your note that the drops of liquid discharged from your sexual organ is the lubricant madhi which does not require a ghusl or full bath of purification. What one must do after the discharge of madhi is wash ones private parts, wash the clothing where the discharge might have touched, perform the wudu and make oneself available for prayer.
A ghusl or full bath of purification is only obligatory at the discharge of the mani or final ejaculation experienced at the climax of sexual emission.
Dear and Beloved Brother, although you have not asked us to comment on it, it is our duty as your brothers and well-wishers in Islam to warn you in light of the guidance of the Quran and the Sunnah that indulging in talks of a sexual nature with a non-mehram woman or intentionally watching nude photos or pictures, etc. are manifest forms of the sin of fahisha or shameful deeds which have specifically been forbidden by Allah and His Messenger (saws).
Allah says in the Holy Quran Chapter 7 Surah Aaraaf verse 33: Say (O Prophet): The things which my Lord has declared haraam are: shameful deeds, whether open or secret; and sinful things; and transgression against the Truth.
Allah says in the Holy Quran Chapter24 Surah Noor verse 30: O Prophet, enjoin the believing men to restrain their gaze, and guard their private parts. This is a more righteous way for them. Allah has knowledge of whatever they do.
Allah Says in the Holy Quran Chapter 6 Surah Anaam verse 120: Eschew all sin open or secret: those who earn sin will get due recompense for their "earnings."
Every deed done by the Children of Adam, will be brought forth in an Open Book in the Court of Allah on the Day of Judgment. And if a believer, who sincerely fears Allah and the Last Day, has done evil and shameful deeds in the past, must strive to immediately seek forgiveness from Allah and fear the Day when no deed will be hidden from the All Knowing, All Wise; and each individual will have to give a full accounting of the deeds that he had done.
Allah says in the Holy Quran Chapter 99 Surah Zilzaal verses 7-8: (On the Day of Judgement) whoever has done an atoms weight of good shall see it; and whoever has done an atoms weight of evil, shall see it!
Thus the believers should fear Allah and the Day of Severe Accounting, and strive to stay away from the haraam. On that Inevitable Day, even an atoms weight of evil done by man will be brought forth, and every individual will have to give a full accounting of every deed that he had done in the Awesome Presence of the Majestic and Supreme Lord of the Worlds.
Whatever written of Truth and benefit is only due to Allahs Assistance and Guidance, and whatever of error is of me. Allah Alone Knows Best and He is the Only Source of Strength.
Your Brother in Islam,