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How to keep away from women?

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As salamualikum,BURHAN

well i`m a 16 yr teenager,i would like to know about the sins of sex(zina)which will be given to a person in the hell(if he goes in the hell). I hav a desire about the sex when i see a beaufiful women,well i recite any quranic verses at ths time,but when i go for chatting and checking mails,and my heart says me to search about the heroines,actresses famouse celebrites&i do such some time and whn i`m alone too watching TV....

plz tell me a solution how i can keep my heart in my will & keep away frm WOMEN

Was-salama

 

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How to keep away from women?

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Your Question: i would like to know about the sins of sex(zina)which will be given to a person in the hell(if he goes in the hell)

Allah says in the Holy Quran Chapter 17 Surah Israa verse 32: Do not even go near zina (fornication or adultery) for it is a very indecent thing and a very evil way!

 

Allah says in the Holy Quran Chapter 25 Surah Furqaan verses 63-69: The (true) servants of the Merciful are those who walk humbly on the earth. When the ignorant people behave insolently towards them, they say, Peace to you; (And those) who pass their nights in prostrating themselves and standing before their Lord and pray, O our Lord, save us from the torment of Hell, for its torment is killing! It is an evil abode, and an evil resting place. (And those) who, when they spend are neither extravagant, nor miserly, but keep the golden mean between the two extremes. (And those) who do not invoke any god but Allah Alone, nor kill a soul unjustly, which Allah has forbidden, nor commit zina (fornication and adultery) He who does this shall be punished for his sin, and his torment shall be doubled on the Day of Resurrection, and he shall abide in a state of ignominy.

 

Sahih Al-Bukhari Hadith 9.171 (part) Narrated by Samura bin Jundub

Allah's Messenger (saws) very often used to ask his companions, "Did anyone of you see a dream?" So dreams would be narrated to him by those whom Allah wished to tell. One morning the Prophet (saws) said, "Last night two persons came to me (in a dream) and woke me up and said to me, 'Proceed!' So we proceeded and came across something like a Tannur (a kind of baking oven, a pit usually clay-lined for baking bread). In that oven there was much noise and voices. We looked into it and found naked men and women, and behold, a flame of fire was reaching to them from underneath, and when it reached them, they cried loudly. I (saws) asked them, 'Who are these?' They said to me those naked men and women whom you saw in a construction resembling an oven, they are the adulterers and the adulteresses.

 

Your Question: I hav a desire about the sex when i see a beaufiful women,well i recite any quranic verses at ths time,but when i go for chatting and checking mails,and my heart says me to search about the heroines,actresses famouse celebrites&i do such some time and whn i`m alone too watching TV....

plz tell me a solution how i can keep my heart in my will & keep away frm WOMEN

Zina is considered such an evil and such a grave sin in the sight of Allah that He has advised the believers in the Holy Quran 17:32 .. Do not even go near zina.. We are commanded by Allah not to even go near zina, if indeed we fear Allah and the Last Day!!! If one is constantly in the face of non-mehram women, or constantly watches non-mehram women on television or internet or magazines, it opens the path wide open for Shaytaan to incite them towards illegal sexual desire.

 

Thus the only way to keep away from such illegal sexual desires is the constant Remembrance and the fear of the Accounting of Allah Subhanah, and to pay heed to His command Do not even go near zina., which means one must strive to abstain from all sources that invites one to the path that leads to the heinous and grave sin of zina.

 

Sahih Al-Bukhari Hadith 7.4 Narrated by Abdullah

We were with the Prophet (saws) while we were young and had no wealth whatever. So Allah's Messenger (saws) said, "O young people! Whoever among you can marry, should marry, because it helps him lower his gaze and guard his modesty (i.e. his private parts from committing illegal sexual intercourse etc.), and whoever is not able to marry, should fast, as fasting diminishes his sexual power."

 

Whatever written of Truth and benefit is only due to Allahs Assistance and Guidance, and whatever of error is of me. Allah Alone Knows Best and He is the Only Source of Strength.

 

Your Brother in Islam,

 

 

Burhan

 


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