Sex wrong acts
Mu' meneen Brothers and Sisters,
As Salaam Aleikum wa Rahmatullahi wa Barakatuh. (May Allah's Peace, Mercy and Blessings be upon all of you)
One of our brothers/sisters has asked this question:
ASALAMU ALEIKUM WARAHMATULLAH WABARAKATUH.
PLEASE I HAVE A QUESTION. DOES USING A WIFE THROUGH HER AS HOLE NEGATE NIKAH.
WE HAVE BEEN MARRIED NOW MORE THAN TEN YEARS AND WE ARE USING ALWAYS THIS TYPE OF SEX BEFORE USING THE ALOWED HOLE.
YOURS BROTHER IN ISLAM/
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Allah Says in the Holy Quran Chapter 2 Surah Baqarah verse 222:They ask thee concerning women's courses. Say: They are a hurt and a pollution; so keep away from women in their courses and do not approach them until they are clean. But when they have purified themselves ye may approach them in any manner time or place ordained for you by Allah. For Allah loves those who turn to Him constantly, and He loves those who keep themselves pure and clean.
Sunan of Abu-Dawood Hadith 3895 Narrated by Abu Hurayrah
The Prophet (saws) said: If anyone resorts to a diviner and believes in what he says, or has intercourse with his wife when she is menstruating, or has intercourse with his wife through her anus; he has nothing to do with what has been sent down to Muhammad (saws).
Al-Tirmidhi Hadith 3195 Narrated by Abdullah ibn Abbas
Allah's Messenger (saws) said, "Allah will not look at a man who has intercourse with a man or a woman through the anus."
Sunan of Abu-Dawood Hadith 2157 Narrated by Abu Hurayrah
The Prophet (saws) said: He who has intercourse with his wife through her anus is accursed.
Q-1: DOES USING A WIFE THROUGH HER AS HOLE NEGATE NIKAH.
Allah and His Messenger (saws) have declared it absolutely forbidden for one to have sexual intercourse with his wife through her anus. Although it does not automatically negate the nikaah of the couple, it is a grave sin; and the couple should immediately seek sincere repentance from their Lord and abstain from this evil and accursed act immediately.
Q-2: WE HAVE BEEN MARRIED NOW MORE THAN TEN YEARS AND WE ARE USING ALWAYS THIS TYPE OF SEX BEFORE USING THE ALOWED HOLE.
Beloved brother in Islam, having intercourse with the wife through her anus is an absolutely forbidden act in Islam. You and your wife should immediately seek sincere repentance from Allah Subhanah for your acts done in ignorance of the law, and never ever approach the same again. It is expected that you will find your Lord Most Merciful and Forgiving.
Allah says in the Holy Quran Chapter 3 Surah Ale Imraan verse 135-136:Allah likes such good people very much, who, if ever they commit a base deed or wrong their own soul by the commission of a sin, remember Allah instantly, and ask for forgiveness from Him for their shortcomings. For who, but Allah, can forgive sins? (And Allah loves those) who do not knowingly persist in the wrongs they did. These will be rewarded with forgiveness from Allah, and with Gardens beneath which canals flow, and they will reside therein forever! How excellent is the reward of those who do good deeds!
Allah says in the Holy Quran Chapter 6 Surah Anaam verse 54:When those come to you who believe in Our Signs, say: "Peace be on you! Your Lord had inscribed for Himself (the rule of) Mercy. Verily if any of you did evil in ignorance, and thereafter repented and amended (his conduct), Lo! He is Oft-Forgiving, Most Merciful."
The conditions or ways to seek sincere Taubah or Repentance from the Merciful Lord are:
One is aware that he has sinned, and feels sorry and ashamed at his sin.
Makes a solemn covenant and promise with Allah that he will not repeat his sin again.
Turns to Allah and seeks forgiveness, before he has met with his appointment of death.
Is a believer and does righteous good deeds thereafter.
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Your Brother in Islam,